*It seems certain by the time of this letter
that Mona Lisa and I had broken up and that thoughts of marriage
were far from both our minds. It was all for the best. As Mama
says, God works in mysterious ways and wonders to behold.. When we
think we have been denied what we desire, it is not always a bad
thing. Often we are being prepared for something better. Something
that God really wants us to have; something that will be the best
for us and those about us. We can’t thank the Lord enough for
our blessing, even when it seems a disastrous outcome. I learned
that from Mama, too.
I am uncertain to whom Theresa was then engaged.
She would, however, marry; divorce; and then marry again. She and
her second husband, Tim, were married in the yard of the family
house. I don’t know why she did that. I suspect she, knowing
Mama is a holy woman, wanted Mama’s blessings so that this
marriage would last and be all she wanted out of a marriage.
Moreover, the family house was built on consecrated ground.
Theresa and Tim later moved to Virginia. The two of them stayed at
the family house with Mama for a couple of years before they
bought land and built a house near Petersburg. An employee
of Bell-Atlantic (now Verizon) for over ten years then, Theresa,
had her job transferred to Richmond, Virginia. Theresa’s son,
Maurice, then grown, remained in Baltimore; he stayed in Lucinda’s
basement. He will marry soon.
Theresa and Tim now have their own house. They
had it built outside of Petersburg. Both of them are working and
doing fine. Tim, the city boy, has adjusted to Virginia and
country life. His favorite pastime is hunting squirrels, in which
he always brings a few for Mama. In that Mama still has a wood
stove in the kitchen, he also brings her wood and stores it under
the shed. He has not forgotten her generosity and sympathy when he
and his wife were struggling. It is true, in this instance, you
reap what you sow.
**Chicken and Peter are Mama's grandsons, the sons of Edith and
Annie, respectively. Other comments have been made about them in
other of Mama's letters and my commentaries.