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Enough Of This Obasanjo Family,
Please!
By
Ugochukwu Ejinkeonye
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Recently, (Saturday Nov 22, 2008) I
wanted to purchase a copy of
Bitter-Sweet: My Life With Obasanjo,
by Mrs. Oluremi Obasanjo, the woman
who is sparing no effort just to
underline her belief that no matter
what anyone, including even Gen
Olusegun Obasanjo himself, thinks is
the case, the truth she would want
everyone to see and swallow is that
among the countless women swarming
the Obasanjo harem, she is the only
one qualified to be called his wife.
Others, she insists, are mere
concubines. To buttress this point,
she reminds us on page 91 of
Bitter-Sweet, that while
broadcasting the profiles of leading
members of the Obasanjo junta just
before he handed over power to
Alhaji Shehu Shagari in 1979, “the
Nigerian Television Authority (NTA)
showed me, and my husband, and our
five children then, as the
officially recognized and properly
married wife, the wife of his youth
he swore to keep forever.”
When I
called the number on the invitation card for the
public presentation of the book (which I didn’t
attend), an elderly female voice told me to go
to James Robertson Street in Surulere, Lagos,
that I would get the book there. |
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In Surulere that
Saturday, especially, on Adeniran Ogunsanya
Street, and virtually all the other streets in
the area, including Ogunlana Drive, Masha Road,
and James Robertson, I encountered one of the
worst traffic situations Lagos may have
experienced since it began to exist, which
served as painful reminder of the abysmal
failure of character and leadership that had
distinguished the eight-year reign of the
subject of the book I was taking all the trouble
to purchase. As the traffic situation worsened,
I abandoned the car in one of the streets,
jumped onto an okada (commercial
motorcycle), and in no time, was in James
Robertson Street. Since I needed to get an
additional copy for someone, I bought two
copies—one hard cover (N3,000) and soft cover
(N2,000), and there went N5,000 which I now
sincerely believe, after reading the book, could
have been invested in a more rewarding and
edifying venture!
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Mrs. Oluremi
at the public presentation of the
book
Now, forget the sensational reviews
of the book you may have encountered
so far since it was presented to the
public at a very poorly attended
ceremony in Lagos recently. The book
contains only very insignificant,
highly biased items that could be
considered new to what the public
already knew about Obasanjo; there
is hardly any information therein
with the capacity to shock or awe;
nothing really exciting,
enlightening or edifying about the
subjects treated in the entire book.
The public appears to have more than
it offers.
The book is
all about a woman’s attempt to rewrite herself
into prominence and reckoning in one man’s life,
to demonstrate, albeit incoherently, that no
matter who the public saw starring with Obasanjo
in all those days he hugged the limelight as
Nigeria’s ruler, it was she, Oluremi, that the
man regarded as the central figure
in his life, despite the countless
battering she got from him; that it
was she who turned down the offer to
live with him in Ota; that her
decision to stay apart left a huge
void in his life; that he was always
pleading with her not to leave him
alone; and that despite his brutal
actions towards her, he
loved and respected her and only
kept the other women as “ponies.” |
Although, it
is known that the author and her husband were
separated at some point in time (and she keeps
talking, about “when I was kicked out”) the
strength of the book lies in her ability to
leave the reader in total confusion about when
exactly this happened, how long it has lasted,
or whether it has been intermittent.
Instead,
greater energy was devoted to show the prominent
role she continued to play in Obasanjo’s life,
playing down the separation and reducing all the
other women to mere fringe elements in
Obasanjo’s life. Dripping from the pages of the
book is the undying love she retained for her
man, and her willingness to receive him back any
time he returned from his boundless wandering
through countless skirts. The author’s
bitterness towards late
Stella
was so palpable; it could not be assuaged even
by her death. And the way she always gleefully
announced the misfortune that met the several
people that did her hurt speaks volumes about
the nature of her heart.
Despite all
she suffered from Obasanjo (including being
detained on Obasanjo’s instructions at the
Lafenwa Police Station, “stripped to my
underwear”), she, like Carol McCain, still loved
him. But she makes a touching confession on page
64: “He is the only man I have known all my life
. . . So when I found out his philandering
exploits, I regarded it as the unkindest cut for
his breaking the sacred vow we took at the
London Registry.”
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Olusegun Obasanjo
Now, I sincerely think that time has
come for
Obasanjo and his dysfunctional
family to excuse Nigerians from
their endless problems and the
incredibly suffocating stench that
always oozes from that obviously
desecrated homestead, and school
themselves to realize that we are
all sick and tired of it all. I
can’t remember the last time I heard
anything wholesome and edifying from
that family. Not too long ago,
Gbenga, Obasanjo’s son shocked the
nation when he stated in an
affidavit that himself, his father,
and father-in-law, were sharing his
wife, and that his father was
rewarding his wife with juicy
government contracts after sleeping
with her.
He went further to say that due to
this multiple sleeping partners his
wife was generously hosting with
immense relish, he required a DNA
test to establish the paternity of
the children born to him by his
wife, since he was not sure any more
who among the three had fathered
them. |
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What a family! My heart surely goes out to those
hapless tender children, who never asked to be
born into the badly mismanaged Obasanjo family,
and who would grow up tomorrow to grapple with
the serious debilitating doubt over their
paternity, raised by no other person than the
man they call their father.
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Senator Iyabo
Obasanjo-Bello: first daughter of
the couple
Senator Iyabo, on her part, is
always in the news for the most
horrible reasons. When she is not
transacting very controversial and
ugly deals with a name other than
her own, she is being accused of
mismanaging committee funds in the
Senate. In fact, a newsmagazine once
called her on its cover, “The Queen
of Scandals,” a tag her mother on
page 123 of the book thinks does not
befit her daughter. Rather, Oluremi
thinks her children are all unfairly
having image problems because of
“the name, Obasanjo.” And so, the
attempt by the EFCC to get Iyabo to
explain her role in the scandal
involving the Senate Health
Committee fund was all done “in a
bid to humiliate her because she is
Obasanjo’s daughter.” I |
yabo, she
maintains, was not appointed Ogun State Health
Commissioner because she was Obasanjo’s
daughter, but rather she had worked hard to earn
it. I suppose she expects anyone to believe
that?
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My problem with this book is that it
is a needless effort to advertise
raw bitterness. And it would end up
dishonouring the same children she
loves and defends. But what sickens
me most is her attempt to exonerate
her children from matters in which
the public is even in possession of
superior facts. What it tells me is
that if Obasanjo had not kicked her
out of his life, she would also have
been out there today defending him
against Nigerians who dared
express disgust at the unmitigated
disaster and organized banditry he
effectively supervised for a whole
eight years in Nigeria, during which
corruption was effectively
institutionalized and celebrated,
and the country ruined.
For her, so long as a person is in
her good books, the person can do no
wrong. So, why should I bother
myself about such a person and her
book? |
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Ugochukwu
Ejinkeonye writes a highly-regarded column
(SCRUPLES) for Nigeria's leading national
newspaper, The Independent (www.independentngonline.com)
every Wednesday
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