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Books by Miriam DeCosta-Willis
Daughters of the Diaspora: Afra-Hispanic Writers
(2003 /
Singular Like a Bird: The Art of Nancy Morejon
(1999)
The
Memphis Diary of Ida B. Wells (1995) /
Erotique Noire/Black Erotica
(1992) /
Homespun
Images
( 1989) /
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Ties that bind
‘The Big Five’
get together for first time in 51 years
By Richard Walker
Monday, May 15, 2006
It began 60 years ago, and unlike
other friendships, time has served only to strengthen
the ties that bound these five childhood friends.
Through the years, the five former school girls have
kept in touch while still going their individual ways.
They call themselves “The Big Five,” and they gathered
in Orangeburg recently for, as they called it, a reunion
of “sisters.”
“This is the first time since 1955 that all five of us
have been in the same room,” Carolyn Harris Brown said.
“There’s been four of us together since then,” said
Miriam DeCosta-Willis. “But not all five.”
And the time four of “The Big Five” got together, Brown
said she had to leave her honeymoon to be at another
one’s wedding.
They were childhood friends and classmates at Felton
Training School on the campus of State A&M College
(today’s South Carolina State University).
Each lived only a block away from one another on the
campus grounds, and three of the girls’ families even
shared what some may remember as a “party” line, a
single telephone line that was used in multiple
residences. Their number — 1111.
“We could've gone into the yard and talked,” Brown said,
“but the telephone was a new thing.”
In addition to Brown and Willis, The Big Five is made up
of Barbara Thompson Townsend, Carolyn Webber Thomson and
Barbara Williams Jenkins.
Of the five, only Townsend has remained in Orangeburg.
The rest were carried on life’s wings to Columbia,
Manning, Tennessee and New York.
Thomson is a medical pathologist while the others have
retired from similarly successful careers. Brown retired
as music superintendent of Richland School District I,
Jenkins retired as head librarian at SCSU, the author of
eight books, Willis retired as a college professor, and
Townsend retired as an art teacher.
It was 1946 Orangeburg when the girls were growing up as
the children of college faculty. In addition to the
usual classes, there were operettas to attend, piano
recitals, tennis and swimming lessons. Such was the
benefit of growing up on the campus.
Looking back, however, the women say they see themselves
as living in a “cocoon,” a life sheltered from the world
segregated outside of the campus.
“When we went outside the campus, we had to sit upstairs
at the movie theater,” Willis said, “or we wouldn’t be
allowed to try on the ladies’ hats at Belk’s.”
They eventually went on to Wilkinson High School where
they became gray and maroon “Wolverines.” There was the
“Dawn Dance,” junior and senior proms, and what the
girls consider the high point of high school, the
“Hi-Light Social Society Dance.”
It was during this time that the girls served as
counselors at State’s Elloree youth facility, Camp
Daniels, where they were paid $5 a week in salary.
“We had a good time,” Jenkins said.
In an atmosphere unique to such gatherings — laughter,
recollection, knowing looks — it wasn’t hard to realize
the ladies have led colorful lives.
“Now, we’re not going to tell about the time Barbara
wrecked the tractor?” Brown said.
“And we’re not going to tell about the purple Jesus,
either!” Willis said, referring to an alcoholic
concoction popular on campuses in their day.
After high school, however, like the individual threads
of a rope, the girls’ paths began to separate.
South Carolina State College, Benedict College and
Wellesley College parted the childhood friends, at least
physically.
The segregated United States of the 1950s assured
further separation when the girls weren’t allowed
enrollment at in-state schools. Local schools, including
the University of South Carolina, paid for black
students to attend out-of-state schools, the women said.
But that didn’t stop the young women from making the
most of themselves. Of the group, two obtained doctorate
degrees, two obtained masters degrees, and one received
a medical degree.
“All of them were high achievers after college, very
representative of the community,” said former Wilkinson
assistant principal Robert E. Howard, namesake of Howard
Middle School.
About 30 acquaintances of The Big Five from Felton,
State and Camp Daniels joined in for their reunion
celebration Thursday, a time for laughter, a time for
reminiscing, a time for friends.
“I think it’s a Southern thing, it’s the culture,”
Townsend said. “It’s ties that bind.”
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Photo Above: Christmas
cards, calls and letters held a 60-year friendship
together in the interim. But Thursday Christmas cards,
calls and letters held a 60-year friendship together in
the interim. But Thursday marked the first time in more
than 50 years that five childhood friends, who call
themselves “The Big Five,” had been together. Pictured
from left, standing, Barbara Thompson Townsend,
Dr. Barbara Williams Jenkins, Dr. Miriam De
Costa Willis. Seated from left, Carolyn Harris
Brown and Dr. Carolyn Webber Thomson. VAN
HOPE/T&D
Source:
Times and Democrat
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rwalker@timesanddemocrat.com
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posted 22 May 2006 |
